Lama-Lamaan

Jadi inget suatu pagi saya lagi dengerin radio, waktu penyiar radionya bilang begini, "nikah itu bukan cepet-cepetan, tapi lama-lamaan"

Mak deng.

Sebenernya sih occassionnya ngocol aja saat itu, tapi tetep lumayan "nyampe" juga sih maksudnya. I mean, made sense gitu. Bukan soal marriage aja loh ya.. Tapi juga soal lain misalnya baru jadian ato apa gitu.

Kadang orang ingin menampilkan sisi kehidupannya yang sangat memuaskan, accomplishment, achievement, and everything about good things. But then, they forget what really is the meaning of it. It's not about what to show, but really what is it you're working on.

Maybe that's why some people don't really want to make things go public, so then when it's over, they don't need to hide anything from anyone.

We tend to be eager to show something off when we're proud or happy about it, but then run away and disappear when something bad happens. Or rather be ashamed and make it as quiet as possible.

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