I just posted something that I found from another article on website.
Basically saying that
Happiness = Reality - Expectations.
In other words, the more you expect something to happen which usually is something you want the most, the more you are going to be extremely disappointed when it's not happening. Well, it happens to me A LOT.
And I seem to not learning anything all this time.
Anyways, in other way, when you expect nothing, or expect the worst to happen, most likely you will deal with the reality much much better. Some of my friends are this kind of people. They don't hallucinate, they learn from their mistakes or even better, other's mistakes, so they won't be hurt too much in the end.
Someone who I thought was dead already, suddenly appeared on the surface. He said "I owe you an explanation".
I say it out loud inside my head "CRAP!" now I have more expectations about it. Some of my very very good friends who care about me and understand how reality does suck most of the times, told me, "you will get hurt. Just move on"
I guess I'm just that "kepala batu" and dumb on this kind of situation.
Oh well.. who knows what the future will be. I can't give any more comments about this
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