Changes and answer

I forgot where did I read something like this,
"you can't change people".

Which can be right, can also be totally wrong.

Maybe the better saying would be,
"don't expect to change people, or expect people to change because of you"

Just simply don't expect. But could they change? Absolutely!

In fact, when I observe everywhere, everyone around me, including ME myself, I realized that all of us changed.

Some of the words, the thoughts I wrote in the past, the ones that I said I dislike, I did it eventually.

Contoh lain yang agak simpel,

dulu gue suka banget ama duren. Sekarang? Boro-boro! Sampe si mamah bilang, "dulu pdhal kamu suka... mama dulu hamil kamu makan banyak banget duren" >>mungkin kecewa anak gadisnya telah berubah

Perubahan kayak gitu ga penting2 amat sih, hihi.. But the point is, we change. Which sometimes is hard to accept, don't you think?
What will come across your mind at first: Why? Why people change? Why can't you just stay the same? Why did you break the rules/promises you said?

And then come another answer:
Not all of the things have the answer, you know?

Why people are so eager to find the answer of everything?

Why sky is blue?

Why earth is round?

Why are we alive?

What is the purpose of life?

Why did I get through all of that?

and then we create our own answer, which may not be the answer, but we just like to think THAT is the answer.

Maybe.. sometimes.. it is OK not to get an answer. As simple as that.