Pleasing Everyone

One moment I was thinking..

Part of growing up is, realizing that you become more aware about something you did not care about at all previously (social, economic, politic maybe) and care less about something that you actually don't need to think about. But maybe you did, in the past.

I came also to the point that it is totally OK not to please everyone, it is OK to have someone disliking you, or maybe even hating you.
Why bother thinking about them anyway? If you have others (which I assume would be in a larger number of people) that love you just the way you are. And they won't be irritated by a simple thing you do.

I maybe am not at that point quite yet, but I um, tutor myself into that.

Part of growing up is also, try to simplify as many things as possible, enjoy what things you really do enjoy instead of doing things you think people might think that's cool.

I think what I'm trying to say is that,

love yourself more,
cherish it,
respect it.

Why do I add the "respect" formula into it?
Cause I realized also, that if you only love yourself so much and want to please yourself everytime you have a chance, without "respecting it", you will find later yourself doing things out of the boundary.

That happens a lot to people, you know.

People who starts to behave "this is MY way not yours" but then, look at them and think, do they have any respects to theirselves? I don't think so.

That's just, I can say, a totally selfish behaviour in such a short-time temptation *apadeh sel bahasa lo kedaleman keknya*

Itu aja sih,

mau nggacor lebih banyak lagi tapi ntar jadi kemana mana :D