As most people know, relationship is hard. But what can make it even harder? A bad communication. In my present relationship, we have a lot of concerns. We have many differences, many limitations, and many more. But what makes me grateful is that (so far) we have a good communication with each other.
I remember my previous relationships (again, if you can call so) I never had a good communication with them. Part of it I think is probably maturity, and just mutual feelings between us. I remember soo many concerns I had, were never being addressed by my exes. Most of them just couldn't handle "hard conversations" especially the ones that always related to feelings. I kinda understand that part. Men could be overwhelmed by those talks about feelings. They would probably say, "cmon now, can we just have fun times without always addressing your concerns about feelings all the time??".
My man right now, he has a lot of limitation of course. But luckily, the most important thing, which I think is how we communicate about our concerns, were always being well addressed. It is not always a good talk, I mean sometimes I'm not very happy with the answers, but at least we discussed about things and try to understand it from many sides. So far I'm very happy about it.
Oh well, I don't know how the future will be, though. I guess I will have to keep reminding myself to chill out a little bit :)
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