I texted one of my friends that got married couple of years ago (not very long ago),
"hey X, why I haven't seen you with your wife anymore? I guess I'd rather ask you directly than asking other people, right?"
I know that kinda sound very nosy of me LOL, but well, I've just been curious. I even noticed they are not friends anymore on social media.
My friend, "yes.. I have been divorced. She cheated on me and now getting married again"
WHAT.IN.THE.HELL?
I remember their wedding party was pretty big. Even if I got married one day with someone I really love, except he's rich, I wouldn't make that big of a wedding. Anyywaay... long story short he said the ex-wife married him not because of love, but because of something else (not sure what it is). I actually kinda sensed it even before they got married. Not that I know the wife well, not at all, only do "cipika cipiki" when we see each other. I'm not even sure she remembers me. LOL. Maybe not. But yea, from my friend's story before they got married, the ex-wife was kinda suspicious, like always trying to be secretive, not allowing my friend to look at her phone, putting it on "airplane mode" whenever she left the phone unattended, etc. Weird huh? That's why me and my other friends were shaking our head when he finally got married, in such a "hurry" mode.
Anywaay again, back to the part where "she didn't get married because of love", OMG? How can even someone do that? Like, how nuts are you? I know some people said love can grow after the marriage itself. But, seriously? OK maybe I'm being too judgmental now as I haven't been married at all myself, but I just can't imagine getting into a marriage without love. Might as well become a single person forever! Marriage WITH love itself is already hard, I believe. Imagine being in it WITHOUT love. Hell!
Oh well, I guess people are different. Some thinks that their priority in life might not be the love itself, can be their "image" in front of the public, money, position, etc. I just can hope I won't be one of it one day!
Maybe you should read this piece:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.letthebeastin.com/2014/08/on-love.html?m=1
Huwow... emang Kak beberapa orang katanya ga pernah "madly in love" jadi getting married karna merasa itu hal yang bener, mungkin financially dll. Kalo kataku sih karna mereka ga pernah aja, jd merasa apatis sama konsep itu. Trus pas udah nikah dan tetiba ketemu orang yg bkin "madly in love" dan "butterflies on stomach", nah lho 😂😂 slengki deh. Yang cinta juga tetep mungkin selingkuh sih. Ribet deh.. 😃
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